I just found another article I would have used here. amywestervelt has a new book coming out this fall about Having It All and motherhood getting “a feminism of its own.” Turns out, that she had a piece on that topic do very well after HuffPo picked it up 2 years ago.
The analysis is generally good except for the universal “we”. Apparently “we all” decided that women should have to do everything all on their own. In fact, there were many objectors who were ignored.