I do not disagree. And note, I am not a fan of “do what works for you” for women. It is actually an awful philosophy. (Although now that I think of it, that might be a different article when I get into that.) But none of what you’ve written is wrong. Many, many times men are treated as you describe.
(And I always pause when I see a response from you. High chance you are going to make me think or defend. That makes you one of my favorite commenters.)